In the
last two weeks we have had two outings, one of which was a barbecue, and two
special banquets. Last Tuesday afternoon Dale, Kasey, and I—the American
foreign teachers—were invited to a special dinner that evening with some
American guests. The guests turned out to be from Pacific Lutheran University,
including the man who came in June. It was good to see him, as I’d enjoyed
talking with him before, and he was glad to see me again, too. Luckily, I was
seated beside him and his wife. Also along were the president of the
university, his wife and three other staff members. The occasion of the dinner
was to celebrate the signing of an exchange agreement between the two universities
which will allow students and teachers to go to the other university to study
or teach. (The group was also going to Chengdu to celebrate the 30th
anniversary of their relationship with Sichuan University.) So everyone was
happy. Many toasts were made.
And, of course, the food was fantastic. It included the most dishes I’ve seen at one banquet, many of which were new to me. I lost count after twenty. I enjoyed chatting with Bonnie and Goeff.
When we
left the banquet room, we walked through the large room where teachers who had
just finished their training session were having a dinner. When they saw all
the foreigners, they were astonished. Several men came to the American men for
photos and toasts. I think many or most of them had probably not seen a
foreigner before and had certainly not encountered so many at once. It was fun
to watch their responses.
Saturday
we were invited to join the Chinese literature majors’ volunteer group for a
barbecue. Paul, Sean, Ian, and I joined them. The destination was Golden Horse
River, about half an hour by bus—after walking half an hour to the bus stop.
On
the way from the park to the river, we passed the Teddy Bear Museum and, of
course, stopped for photos. I’ve seen signs for the museum and thought it was
the other direction; so this was a surprise.
I may have to return to see the
museum, as it fascinates me that there is such a museum here in Wenjiang.
We knew
we were at the river when we came to a statue of a golden horse at the end of a
lawn area.
Then we walked to the barbecue area. It was not the lovely, green
area we had envisioned. Instead, it is a cement slab along the river with no
grass in sight. The man who owns the concession provided grills, charcoal,
skewers, stools, tables, and tools for preparing the food, for which we all
contributed. The students had purchased a huge amount of meat and veggies to
grill.
They started preparing food and then grilling at 11:30 and did this for
two hours. They took turns cooking and cutting and skewering. I skewered lotus root for a short time. It was fun to help a bit and to watch them work together. And, of course, eating was fun. People ate as the food was cooked. The students kept offering me/us food. When they learned that I don’t eat pork or spicy food, they supplied me with non-spicy veggies and were happy when I liked the food.
After
eating enough, I sat on a stool and looked at a comic book about learning
English that Paul had brought along to share with students. Several girls joined
me and we started to talk. After a while Paul and Ian joined the group. Sean
sat elsewhere where another group formed. Discussions continued. After a while
we took a break to walk a bit. When I sat down again, a few of the girls
returned and more joined us. It was really fun to chat with them and to help
them feel like they can speak English.
One of
the girls in my discussion circle asked when my birthday is. When I responded
that it was at the beginning of the month, they were sad and said they would
buy me a gift. Later they asked if I like goldfish. I don’t want a fish in a
bowl to have to take care of; so I told them I like fish but don’t want one
because I’m afraid it will die when I leave for a few days. After a while, they
asked if I like tortoises. I realized that they meant turtles and were thinking
of giving me a turtle to keep in a dish. I don’t want one of those either; so I
repeated that I don’t want one because I’m afraid it will die. They said they’d
think some more. That night I got a text message from one of the girls saying
they had purchased a gift for me and arranging to meet Sunday morning.
They
happily brought ma a lucky bamboo plant, and I happily accepted it. At least
plants can live for a few days without water; so I don’t need to worry about it
dying if I leave for a long weekend. And I do like it. So, now I have two
plants—the bamboo and the cactus.
Monday
afternoon we were informed that we would have an outing and lunch on Tuesday
and our classes would be cancelled. Two people don’t have classes on Tuesday
and had made plans, but they were pretty much told they should be here for the
outing and lunch. This last-minute notification continues to be a problem and
frustration. The event was the welcome outing and banquet for the new
teachers—and us returning foreign teachers. We went to the Wenjiang Green Belt
to ride bicycles, but the entrance we went to was closed and there were no
bicycles. So we went around the gate and walked.
Since it had just stopped
raining, the air was moist and fresh, and it was really nice to be out in the
green area. Walking was good because we got to talk with people. I chatted with
Hannah, the new teacher who is training to take over Peggie’s “taking care of
the foreigners” job. Hannah just finished her Master’s degree in English at a
school near Beijing. She’s from central China and wanted to come to Chengdu; so
she only applied for a job at this university. Fortunately, she was accepted.
Her English is excellent. She is the middle child of three daughters. Her
Chinese name means “change” because her parents wanted a boy. Her older sister
is “precious” because the first child is always precious. Her younger sister is
“stop.” When I asked about the one-child policy, she said they were protected.
When an official came to the village to check on families, the villagers sent a
messenger telling her parents to hide their daughters; so she and her sister
hid in the dry riverbed until the official left.
The
river walk was lovely. We saw people planting garlic
and many fishermen. It
really was a pleasant activity.
We were
to have a meeting at 11:00, but we didn’t return to campus until noon. So the
meeting was held at the table while we waited for the president to arrive. It
really wasn’t much of a meeting, and most of the important people weren’t there.
They wanted to ask if we had any problems or concerns. Dale mentioned a few
things, and Hannah took notes. We’ll see if any action is taken. At the table,
Dale was seated next to the president, in the important seat as always. I was
seated next to Dean Cheng. This was new, as I’ve usually been across the table.
When the president arrived, we had toasts and he welcomed everyone.
This
banquet was also fantastic.
A few special items included especially for the
foreigners were French fries with catsup on the side,
individual plates with a
small piece of steak, and a dish of ice cream that was served three-fourths of
the way through the meal.
The whole meal had about thirty dishes. This I know
because I took photos of most of them and I have 25 photos. It always amazes me
that there can still be dishes I haven’t seen or haven’t seen for a long time.
A few were repeats, but I took their photos anyway. (eel with ginseng, which was served at both banquets)
The
banquet was my last official thing to for the week, as the week-long National
Day holiday started on October 1. The holiday is actually five days (Wednesday
to Sunday); so since two more are added, we had make up classes for next Monday
on Sunday and will have make-up classes for next Tuesday on October 11. Only in
China! Since tourist destinations are extremely crowded and hotel prices are
doubled, I decided to stay home and have a quiet week. I’ve done the crowds and
know I can, but I just wasn’t ready to do that yet. I think the fact that I just
returned from traveling a few weeks ago also decreased my desire to hit the
road again so soon.
My
passport was returned to me on Sunday complete with my new visa. (The office
was open because Sunday was a make-up day.) It’s good for 180 days, which will
be renewed every time I re-enter the country. So I have to leave before March
17, which is not a problem because we’ll have the winter break starting in
January. When I return, the visa will be good for another 180 days. So it all
worked out well.
I
received my first salary deposit on Tuesday, which is also good.
There
is a higher police presence on campus this year. Every day I see three or four
of them walking around.
Freshmen
and sophomore students are being required to attend a study hall every evening
for 1.5 hours. They are not happy, as they can’t go to the library or study
where they want to.
My
group of sophomore girls came to office hours the first week. It was good to
see them again. I know they won’t come often, as they are very busy this year.
Sophomore year seems to be the busiest in terms of the work load and having to
take the national tests for English. One came the second week and enjoyed being
able to talk on a more personal level since she was alone. And one freshman
girl came.
My new
commitment is to use the social networks that students use. Last year I had one
but never thought about opening it. This year I am opening it for an hour or so
every night. The other is a phone app that I have on for a few hours a day. I’m
not as popular as the guys (Sean said he and Ian can spend a couple hours a
night answering messages.), but I have several students who like to chat a bit.
This is fine with me.
Another new commitment is going to the fitness center to use the machines for upper body strength. I've been thinking about doing this for a while. Now I am. They have new exercise bicycles that are really nice, and I enjoy riding one sometimes. Yoga class has started, and I go to that once a week. Kasey is going, too, and it's good to have her company. A few of the girls who participate have been chatting with me, which is nice.